I had a bad day today at flight school, and actually ended up quitting my flying lessons. I was sort of wondering how common this is, and I found this really great article about the topic, The #3 reason people quit flight training: Clash of the Personalities. I wanted to leave an ANONYMOUS comment on the blog post, but when I pressed the submit button, I got an error message, something about comments being closed. So I thought maybe I would post my comment about quitting flight school here on my blog in case it might help somebody else out there on the internet feel bad about quitting flight school 😂.
I don’t really want to shit on the flight school that I quit, or my instructor, but I would like to share my experience:
I quit flight school today. I did my first discovery flight on January 1st of this year and had so much fun, and I thought it would make for a really great adventure and goal for the year to either try and get my sport pilot’s license or try and solo. Well I made it to lesson 5 and my instructor kind of yelled at me on the ground for using the brake instead of pulling the power back. I got kind of rattled because I didn’t want to start moving yet, but he yelled at me so I let go of the brake and we started going! I kind of don’t really even remember what happened next? Maybe we kind of swerved around on the taxi way for a little bit before he let us stop for a second. I was too shaken up over the whole thing and asked my instructor if we could go back. My thinking as a student was if things are going this bad on the ground, I don’t want to see how bad things can get up in the air. Usually in life I think you maybe want to try to avoid quitting lest you become a quitter. However, flying lessons are crazy expensive. This particular lesson was going to be around $600. And from my perspective, if I’m going to be spending this kind of money, it ought to be fun, and I probably shouldn’t feel as if I’m in imminent danger. If I had more money I suppose I could shop around and try different flight schools and instructors and whatnot. I feel bad about quitting, but I don’t feel bad about being safe on the ground in my apartment and $8,000 richer (the money I had saved up to blow on my flying adventures). Maybe some day I’ll go give it another shot. Wouldn’t be the first time I quit something, then tried again and succeeded. Or maybe I’ll pivot and try paramotor instead, might be a lot cheaper, and a totally different vibe learning how to do it.
I’m still not sure exactly if I made a good decision or not… I’ve adopted this new life philosophy of not giving up too easily, not quitting too early, and trying to be patient & persistent, resilient, and to overcome obstacles and setbacks. Today I didn’t really do any of those things! Haha. But I am alive, and I’m $8,000 richer, and I’ve freed up all of my Saturdays for the rest of the summer to go have fun and follow my curiosity and pursue other interests and endeavors.
Last thing I’ll say, if you’re considering quitting flight school, add this to your cons list: It’s expensive, time consuming, dangerous, stressful, and not fun… well sometimes it’s fun, so add sometimes fun to the pros list 😉


